Mari Holzer. pergola. September 25th , 2017.
Aloofness and distance. When you are unwilling or fearful of opening your space to others, or when you build walls to insure that others dont invade your emotional or physical space, this may be a defense against past abuse or neglect. The healthier alternative is to be open and engaged, but to draw a firm line over which abusive or neglectful behavior may not cross. Its imperative to recognize the right to say, No!
11. Give your pergola a rustic look by using rough logs and unstained beams. Weave willow or alder twigs in the roof and display your twig furniture below.
Our beliefs, or boundaries if you will, start as important anchored memories with emotional significance. So although they might start as a potential life lesson, at some point we start making decisions that align with our internal representational system of whats true and it morphs into a belief. Beliefs turn into habitual ways of feeling, thinking and behaving. For instance, if you were taught that money is scarce and hard to come by, your unconscious mind will guide you to make choices and find experiences to align with your understanding of how the flow of money happens. This could make you a person who invests conservatively, but well, and an expert at saving for a rainy day. On the down side, you might have low expectations for yourself when it comes to your earning potential in your career. You make job choices and gear your expectaions on the career front from a viewpoint of hardship and scarcity. After all, you dont want to get zapped by moving out too far...so, you stay inside the lines while you notice that others parameters (and earning potential) seem to stretch to the next state, or beyond.
Metal arbors and pergolas are probably the most durable and long-lasting choice. In terms of their design and style, many have an almost gothic appearance, and they tend to mesh well with wrought iron gates and fences. There are many types of metal to choose from, including iron, steel, and aluminum. Depending on the type of metal chosen, you may encounter rust on the structure over time. A good powder coat paint finish will slow this process. Aluminum can be a good choice because it will not rust like steel, and it is also lightweight and extremely durable.
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